I'm not so sure that's the right idea...having a baby doesn't fix problems if you're having a problem in your marriage or your relationship. Not that I know what's going on with you or your family, but it's just a band aid. Baby bliss might distract from the real problems, but it doesn't fix them and as soon as the stress from child rearing becomes real, whatever those problems are will just come back, probably worse than they were...and now you've got a child in the middle of it.